One of the most difficult decision in one`s life is to part way with partner, with whom you have spend some really quality times and stand by him throughout thick or thin. So if you have gone through any such experience and now you have to tell your child that you are a divorce, it makes it more difficult. The main reason is that this will surely create confusion and become a reason of pain for them too. It will be very much difficult to find correct words to explain the situation to your child. So here are few tips that you can use to tell your child about your divorce in a manner that he may accept it.
You are not at fault
First of you have to take him in confidence that he is not the reason of your divorce. You have to tell him that no matter how much disagreement you have regarding his studies, vacations, bed time or other related issues, but you have nothing to do with that. You are an innocent little guy, whom we still love as before.
Your parents will always be there for you
Another thing that is important for him is to know that you will always be there for him whenever he needs you. And there will be no one in this world who can love him more than you.
Changes occurs in life
You must tell him that changes occur in life for good. As his mom and dad are getting divorced, it doesn`t means that they haven`t tried to resolves their issues and problem, but yet cannot be able to. So it is not time to blame each other for not working relationship but this is the time to accept change for good and move on.
Things will be okay
You have to be brave enough to face the reality and soon you will see that things will be okay. You may find things going in odd direction but as some time passes you will find the new routine and it will work perfect for you.
Mom and Dad remain same
One more thing that will help him accept your decision of divorce is to tell him that his mother and father remain same. No one else can claim that they will love you more than your mother and father. So you must not feel lonely as we are there for you every time you wanted us to be on your side.